Degrading someone for not meeting social standards has become more public due to social media. Social media can and has been misused by many people. No, social media is not the problem, but how people utilize the platform is how it can get ugly. Social media is a platform where cyber bullying has taken place. Many people have used social media for the wrong reasons. Although many positive things have come from social media.
This problem is directed towards more girls, comparing themselves to other people is a concern. Everything you see online is not pure and real. Filters and editing apps can enhance people’s feature causing them to look “perfect.” Without filters and editing you still look perfect, but society has outlined these standards for how people should look. Everyone looks perfect just the way we are, everyone has unique characteristics and features to them. I like to say that I am perfectly imperfect.
An example of something that I have been told by someone else who is very judgement and brainwashed by social standards have said, “his teeth are really gross and crooked.” Then proceeds to be fake to the persons face. Another example is I have seen and heard someone scrolling through social media and see another girl posted a picture. The person examined the picture and proceed to degrade her due to her not meeting social standards. At the root of the problem the person who is being judgemental probably has insecurities that she pointed out in the picture. Resulting in an unhealthy coping mechanism to make fun of someone else to make themselves feel better. Everyone is perfectly imperfect.
At the end of the day everyone has their own insecurities, but at the end of the day setting standards that everyone must meet is unrealistic. Those standards you put out will come right back to bite you. Be aware of the word choice you have when talking about others appearances. Love you for yourself and love others as they come, as everyone is perfectly imperfect.
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